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Mar 20, 20193 min
Updated: May 8, 2019
Name - Julie Kagansky
Location - Burlington, ON
Family Fun Notes - Single mom to 2 fantastic kiddos
Occupation/Businesses Water Process Engineer
Degrees in both Biology and Chemical Engineering.
Been teaching group fitness for 15 years now
Lisa Osborne (Les Mills Internationa, Program Director) duh. She’s always a positive spirit and a hard working mum who always seems to make time for her boys.
Toxic masculinity which has created this rape culture that we live in. Once men are comfortable not adhering to these made up gender stereotypes then we can be free to all express ourselves authentically.
Almost every day. I work in an heavily male dominated field. It started in University when I performed at the top of the class and continues to this day. Women are not taken as seriously in meetings etc. We are expected to be performative of femininity at all times. I’ve been sexually harassed at and outside of work. As I get older I get tougher. Or just tired. Maybe both.
I think it’s important to understand that these are human qualities. Yes they have been associated with gender, but it’s important to understand that gender is a spectrum. We all have some female or male traits. Some of us are more sensitive, some of us are more aggressive. Having “male” characteristics such as being competitive doesn’t make me any less of a woman; just as a man being sensitive doesn’t make him any less of a man.
We have a real problem with diversity in the media. Not just race, but body shape/type, ability/disabilities, neurodiversity. We need to do better rather than expect a woman to dress or act a certain way. It’s getting better. When I was little I could never imagine seeing someone who looks like me (biracial/black woman) in a leading role. It’s getting better for my daughter I hope.
It’s obviously feeding into the social climate #MeToo movement right now. It’s all about the benjamins, but I’m here for it. We have to start somewhere.
We need to teach children at a young age that we are all different. There are no girl toys or boy toys or sports etc. And we need to teach both boys and girls ( and other) about consent.
Stop crying about your hair. One day you will learn to love yourself.
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